Comments on: Domestic Violence

By: Re-Education: Boys Being Neutered by Radical Feminist Organization | Abusegate, Investigate!

Fri, 20 Aug 2010 16:38:01 +0000

[...] are abused more than men. Fact: It is about 50/50, but men are less likely to report abuse. See National Coalition for Men“Respect [...]

By: Investigative Reporter etc

Investigative Reporter etc — Wed, 18 Aug 2010 20:27:42 +0000

“sociopathological”

Hey! you just invented a new word and a new type of background check!

“we challenge the best of the best…to seek the truth in our collective case…investigative reporters, etc”

All right then. I accept the challenge. First off I want to know what your real name is so I can do a “sociopathological background check” on you(After you go invent it and the word sociopathological)

“we would love to speak with you. we accept the challenge!!!”

Who is “we” you keep referring to? You and your multiple personalities or the 30 cats you live with? Or do the 30 cats have multiple personalities(Which btw would be totally awesome)?

Comparing your 2 posts I think that I speak of all sane people in saying that it is you that seem disturbed and not in control of your emotions(Or your grammar). If you do not deal with your anger issues they will continue to consume you for the rest of your life.

By: collective ex

collective ex — Tue, 17 Aug 2010 00:44:34 +0000

michael habiniak…author of the above story is NOT an independent film maker living in nc…he is A 39 yr old man born august 11 1971 who lives with his mother in Franklinton, NC who works occasional “odd jobs” to support his pathological behavior. He is currently on house arrest for violating probation & cyber-stalking an ex-girlfriend who he strangled in 2008. He is a VIOLENT repetitive abuser of women who pretends to “play victim” in the “typical legal definition of abuser”. His children claim to have been ignored emotionally and physically as a result of his selfishness and have made a legal & collective statement stating mr. habiniak has “no clue” how to be a father. An extensive criminal & sociopathological background check will divulge mr. habiniak’s behavior for the very few who are actually interested in the truth of this case. According to habiniak’s most recent pre-frontal cortex brain scans …neurological analysis reveals strong pathological tendencies.

We encourage anyone interested in this case to do a complete & thorough investigation of mr. habiniak’s behavior. contact all people he’s been involved with, and ask for the truth. watch carefully…as the lies unravel and his story weakens. we seek truth and know that many men have been victims. we also know that many men “play” victim…like mr. habiniak…we challenge the best of the best…to seek the truth in our collective case…investigative reporters, etc…we would love to speak with you. we accept the challenge!!!

By: Michael Habiniak

Michael Habiniak — Thu, 12 Aug 2010 17:31:04 +0000

I am a Independent Filmmaker and victim of DV against men. I have been doing research here I NC and have found that many of the DV laws target men specifically. The antequated ways of the male and female gender roles have to be given a hard look at. I have been assaulted by a former partner and stabbed, and upon arrival of the authoroties, I was the one arrested and held in jail for 48hrs.

I have decided to take a stand and use my skills and abilities to start the pre-production of a gritty and harsh independent documentary called , NC Law, The Exploitation of a Romance Comedy. It will focus on the the abuse men recieve at the hands of women, and how the legal system is a weapon that enables the abuse to continue legally.

A few years ago NC law makers created a Law called Assault by Strangulation. This law targets men specifically in cases where there was DV of over 4000 cases only 38 women have ever been charged under this law and the rest were all men. This law is a felony, where most all DV laws are misdemeanors. This law also circumvents a mans right to be given his Miranda Rights and chance to give a statement to authorities in the investigation. This allows law enforcement to conduct a one sided investigation and stack the deck against the male defandant and circumvent the discovery process of a trial.

Another point this film will be focusing on is the use of a restraining order as a weapon to inflict injury on a man. Seeing that ther are granted infavor of the female 99.9% of the time they are applied for. Having a restraining order against you shows up on any criminal backround investigation if you apply for a job.

I would love to hear from anyone who wishes to share their story and is willing to show documented proof of the atrocities that are committed upon mens rights in Domestic and Family Court. My contact e-mail is mhabiniak@gmail.com

By: U. Dynamo

U. Dynamo — Sun, 01 Aug 2010 23:34:44 +0000

I remember reading a Facebook page about 102 things that guys should know about girls.

#3 was “If she hits you, you probably deserved it.”

I will be forever disgusted by that statement. Cheers to this organization and everything it will ever accomplish. Looking forward to a future Canadian chapter.

By: steph

steph — Sat, 03 Jul 2010 00:31:10 +0000

I am glad to know I am not the only one…my boyfriends ex is insane! She hates that he is with me and has done anything and everything possible to keep us apart. Right after we met, she accused him of CDV and he was arrested. He spent 71 days in jail …only to go to court and the charges were dropped because they realized he did nothing wrong. ( mind u when he was arrested, she had hit him and he had a huge bruise on HIS head). Now..9 months later, he was at the same place she was , and two days later, the cops showed up to arrest him. Once again, she reported that she felt “fearful” for her life! So he is sitting there for no reason other than the fact that she is crazy. I can’t believe the laws we have and that someone can simply say they feel “fearful” and someone goes to jail!! And I’m sorry, I have been beaten up by an ex A LONG time ago, so I understand we need laws, but there has to be another way so that innocent people aren’t going to jail because of non-stable chics. There are too many people out there doing serious and life ending crimes for our jails to be filled with people that DON’T belong there. My heart goes out to all of you in my situation, because both my heart is aching, my childrens’…(whom adore my boyfriend) and and my boyfriends, who is losing days of his life for being at the wrong place and the wrong time. This country and south carolina need to figure alot out!!

By: Robert

Robert — Wed, 24 Mar 2010 14:26:22 +0000

http://www.prnewswire.com/news-releases/abusegate-groups-call-for-congressional-investigation-of-domestic-violence-programs-84464442.html

By: Renee

Renee — Tue, 23 Mar 2010 16:58:45 +0000

My husband of 3 years is going through the same situation right now! His ex-wife and mother of his 3 and 5 year old is psychotic!! When they were married, one weekend she wanted to go out with her friends one Saturday night and agreed to let him go out Friday night to make up for it. He went out with a buddy and had a few drinks. He came home and she was waiting for him at the front door with a leg from a coffee table. She was mad bc he was out late and she beat him with it! He left to keep from being beat anymore and she called the cops for CDV High and Aggrevated Nature (felony). He was found and arrested the next morning. He wound up doing PTI to espunge his record from that. Well now, one evening we checked the mail and found there was a warrant for his arrest for CDV. He turned himself in. She claims he came to her house and they argued and she feared for her life! NEVER HAPPENED!!!! We’re in the process of getting a trial date and all. The cop that went to her house that day says that she had NO evidence of CDV but bc she claimed it, he had to be arrested! That’s a bunch of BS in my book! We’re fighting to clear his name and get her for filing a false police claim! Our intent is to get the kids taken from her and her serve time!! This has got to stop! Its awful that a woman can get mad at her ex and call the police and immediately he has a record! And meanwhile, there are crooks and sickos out there getting away with all kinds of things!! I don’t understand!!

By: Gardner

Gardner — Tue, 23 Mar 2010 15:31:37 +0000

KY is FAR from equal in handling this problem… If nothing else they BRAINWASH women.. Me and my-exgirlfriend got into it– we broke up she moved out– no violence– no hitting no nothing– just didn’t get along AT THE TIME.. Her family wouldn’t help her because they’re broke and uncaring people. SO she stayed in a shelter… After about 2 weeks I realized I love her and missed her… In that short amount of time they had her convinced I was a basher and abuser. They wouldn’t let me leave money for her- I knew she needed some– or talk too her. I NEVER PUT MY HANDS ON HER. We just didn’t get along for a short amount of time. THEY ARE BRAINWASHERS and manhaters pure and simple.

By: Farah

Farah — Sun, 07 Mar 2010 09:39:20 +0000

I am a female and been convicted of DV by my husband. I’m an immigrant and I left the country to save my Son(My own not his), cos I know he’s up to something. I was convicted recently cos no show is guilty,means he’s under Relief, I don’t know if I can still come back to appeal the case, and follow up he filed a divorce but the thing is we didn’t got married there. He’s got some kind of mental disorders and I have a good feeling that it is a strong ground to dismiss the case. I still love him but he already destroyed our life, he accused of worst things i don’t know if he make-up evidences of course it’s easy i have my evidence too. ANyone can suggest? The Court ordered me to have DV treatments and suicide threats, and wants me to pay and he put ANY. If you will ask me I really don’t want to go back it’s just i wanted to clear my reputation. Thanks